Tag: Burnout

  • Seven Types of Rest for a Place That Doesn’t Slow Down

    Seven Types of Rest for a Place That Doesn’t Slow Down

    In mountain towns, we adventure hard. We fill our calendars with training, courses, multi day adventures, and objective after objective. We’re drawn by these activities that make us feel free, so we spend as much time  doing them as humanly possible.

    And somewhere in all that doing, rest quietly falls off our radars entirely. Not because we decided against it, but because there was never really room for it in the first place. We don’t just struggle to find time to rest, we’ve forgotten what rest actually is.

    Ask most people what rest looks like and you’ll likely get the same answer: sleep in, take a day off, hold down the couch, and do nothing. 

    Sure, that is part of it, but it is not the whole picture because rest isn’t only one thing. Rest actually comes in seven different forms and most of us are only getting one, maybe two. 

    This isn’t unique to mountain towns. Hustle culture has been telling us for years that our worth is measured in output. Here, it just looks a little different, it’s not inboxes and deadlines, rather it’s objectives and stoke, but the equation is the same: busy equals worthy.

    Before we can actually get better at resting, it helps to know what we’re resting from, and what kind of rest we’re even missing.

    When I first came across the idea that there are actually seven types of rest, not just one, it changed a lot for me. I’d been sleeping in on my days off but I still felt off, restless, and not quite recovered, even when I’d technically ‘rested.’ Turns out I was missing the bigger picture of rest.

    The Seven Types of Rest

    Rest researcher Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith identified seven types of rest we need to actually feel recovered, not just physical. Here’s what each one looks like:

    Physical Rest  – This one we all know, sleep, sitting down, letting your body actually stop. This is simple in theory, but even our rest days here often sneak in a ‘quick’ pedal or an ‘easy’ hike because true nothing days can feel like wasted time. 

    Mental Rest –  This one is when we give our brains a break from constant problem solving or decision making. Reading conditions, planning routes, calculating risk for the sports we love ask a lot of our minds. Mental rest means actually letting that thinking stop, not just switching to a different screen. 

    Emotional Rest – This is taking the space to feel what you actually feel without needing to present as being okay. This one is a hard one as mountain culture often rewards toughness and stoke, which can make it harder to admit when a close call scared you, or you’re just not feeling it. 

    Social Rest – This is time away from socializing, even the good kind. I’m not saying that being with community and friends is a bad thing, though when plans stack on top of plans and there’s never a pause in between then there is a problem.

    Sensory Rest – This is a break from noise, screens, and over stimulation. Being outside is genuinely good for this, fresh air, open space, more stillness. Though between the chatter at the crag, a phone full of beta, quite isn’t always as quiet as it seems. 

    Creative Rest – This is time to take to engage in creativity that has nothing to do with solving problems. Our sports ask a lot of us creatively, solving a boulder problem, picking a descent line, adapting to changing conditions. Creative rest means finding space for a different kind of creativity – painting, writing, cooking, music.

    Spiritual Rest – This is taking time to find a deep sense of peace from within. This may come from connecting with something greater than yourself, such as the real meaning we find moving through the mountains. It is worth taking notice, though, of when that meaning starts getting measured only in objectives sent rather than meaningful presence. 

    You don’t need all seven types of rest every day, but it helps to know they exist.  So, when you feel off, restless, wrung out, even after a full night’s sleep, you can ask a better question than ‘why am I still tired?’ You can ask yourself which kind of rest you’re actually missing.

  • Why You Can’t Say No to Adventure (And When to Rest)

    Why You Can’t Say No to Adventure (And When to Rest)

    Sunday evening, a text pops up: ‘Hey, wanna run up the Apron after work tomorrow?’ Excited, I agree, again. I mean, why not? It’s summer, the weather looks great, and that sounds fun. 

    What I easily forget is the jam-packed weekend that’s not so far behind me: biking on Friday, climbing on Saturday, running up the Chief earlier this morning. 

    On second thought… man, I am tired. And yet here I am saying yes anyway, because the truth is once I’m out there it feels worth it. There is no denying how good it feels to scratch the itch, to chase every good day the summer has to offer, but this feeling comes with a toll.

    I wake up the next morning feeling like it’s my body’s job to hold down the couch but somehow I putter myself over to the kitchen to make my regular cup of tea before work. As I reach for the kettle my climbing plans pop into my head through the tired fog, and I’m immediately bombarded with convincing thoughts: ‘I can rest tomorrow’, ‘it’s nice out, so why not?’, ‘everyone else is going to be out there, so why not me?’.

    Sound familiar? Saying yes isn’t the problem. Overriding your body’s signals, ignoring what it’s asking for because the season feels too short to waste a single good day, that’s the real problem. 

    Why This Pull Feels So Strong

    There’s a reason this pull feels so strong, and it’s not just in your head. 

    Our nervous systems have evolved to treat the fear of missing out (FOMO) as a kind of threat. For most of human history, being left behind by the group wasn’t a small thing, it could mean real danger. This wiring hasn’t gone away, it just shows up differently now: as a text you feel you can’t say no to, or a pang of anxiety when you picture someone else out with your climbing partner. 

    Your body reacts to FOMO almost the same way it would react to an actual threat: a little surge of urgency, a little tightening, a pull to act right now. Now, this isn’t a weakness, it’s actually just how we are built. This survival response, however, was never meant for plans to climb on Monday evening. 

    From this we’re quick to argue with our body’s bids for rest. We negotiate with our own exhaustions until we’ve talked ourselves into going, and maybe other times we just completely turn our backs to these signals and let the yes happen far before our bodies get a vote. 

    We do this over and over again, all season long, until we’re physically burnt out, on the cusp of or already injured, and all around too depleted to enjoy that big objective we’ve been working toward all year. Slowly, we lose touch with what our bodies are telling us, until it gets harder and harder to recognize. And somewhere deep down something is telling us that this isn’t sustainable.

    A Question to Ask Before You Say Yes

    Next time that text pops up, try actually listening to your body before you answer. Your body might be asking for rest, a day to hold the couch down. Your mind, on the other hand, might be running that same wiring we talked about, the one that treats missing out as a threat. It might be whispering that this could be the last good day of summer, that everyone else is out there, that you’ll regret staying home.

    Neither voice is wrong to have, but only one of them knows what you actually need.

    So next time you feel the pull because of FOMO, pause and ask yourself: does what my body needs from me match what my mind is telling me?